Describe an argument two of yours friends had
Describe an argument two of your friends had.
You should say:
- Who your friends were?
- When it happened?
- What it was about?
- And explain how you felt about it?
💡 您有1分钟准备时间，应该说1-2分钟。
示例答案
I would like to talk about a time when two of my close friends, Ankit and Rohan, had a heated argument, and how that situation eventually helped them understand each other better.
Who your friends were?
Ankit and Rohan are both my college friends. We often hang out as a group, and they usually get along really well because they share similar interests like cricket and technology. That’s why this argument came as a surprise to me.
When it happened?
This incident happened about six months ago, during the preparation for our annual college tech fest. We were all part of the organizing committee, and everyone had specific roles and deadlines.
What it was about?
The disagreement started when Rohan felt that Ankit wasn’t contributing enough to the promotional work. Rohan had been working late nights to design posters and manage social media, while Ankit was handling sponsorships.
However, Rohan believed Ankit was not putting in the same effort and even accused him of being careless. Ankit, on the other hand, defended himself, explaining that he was waiting for responses from companies and couldn’t rush the process. The discussion quickly turned into a loud argument in front of the whole team.
Explain how you felt about it?
At first, I felt uncomfortable and a bit anxious because I didn’t want their friendship—or our project—to suffer. I tried to calm them down and suggested taking a short break so everyone could think clearly.
After some time, they both realized that stress and pressure had made them overreact. Later that day, Rohan apologized for raising his voice, and Ankit admitted that he should have updated the team more frequently. Eventually, they shook hands, and the event turned out to be a big success.
Conclusion
This experience showed me how even strong friendships can have misunderstandings, especially under pressure. But it also taught me that open communication and a willingness to listen can resolve conflicts and even strengthen relationships.
后续问题 (第3部分)
Do you think arguments are always negative in a friendship?
Not necessarily. Arguments can actually be healthy if they lead to better understanding. In this case, Ankit and Rohan clarified their expectations and learned to communicate more openly. Sometimes, a respectful disagreement can strengthen trust because friends realize they can handle conflicts together.
How do you usually handle conflicts among your friends?
I try to stay neutral and listen to both sides before giving any advice. I believe that staying calm and letting everyone express their feelings is important. Often, people just need to feel heard before they can compromise or apologize.
Do you think people argue more today than in the past?
It’s hard to say, but I think arguments are more visible today because of social media. Online platforms can sometimes create misunderstandings quickly. However, people have always had disagreements; it’s just that now they are easier to notice.
What qualities help people resolve conflicts effectively?
Patience and empathy are key. If both sides can step back, listen carefully, and understand each other’s point of view, the conflict usually gets resolved. Clear communication and a willingness to admit mistakes also play a big role in finding common ground.
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